All About Life and Love
I've often asked myself: What is life all about?
And each time I ask this rhetorical question, I get the same answer: Life is
the small smiles that we have in our little moments of joy, the wide grins that
fill our faces when our hearts are full of happiness, the bits and pieces of
ecstasy that touch our bodies and make them tremble; life is all about the
heartbreaks, the shattered hearts, the outstretched flashes of devastation, and
the brief moments of glee that follow the shattered pieces of our hearts when
they are brought together again. Life is when we fail, fall and get up once
again. It's the past memories haunting our present, and the fears of carrying on
and losing those memories. The satisfaction of victories and the unhappiness of
our defeats. These and more are what make life, life.
One cannot take a glimpse of one of those and say
that's it. One must suffer greater loss, and bear through the pain, then emerge
victorious on the other side.
Love is the greatest part of life, it's the
thing we all want and desire. Love is abundant, it goes far and beyond our
understanding and expectation. Love is the first time you open your eyes as an
infant and see nothing but cheerful faces happy to see you. Love is the first
time you grab the handle of your bicycle then take off, and while seeing
everything go by so fast before your eyes, you fall and hurt your knees, but
instead of crying, you laugh. It's when you first see this person that forces
his/her way to into your heart and makes you flutter. It's the first time you
hold hands with the person you love, and look each other in the eye, saying
nothing, but your silence screams millions of emotions all at once. Your first
kiss, when your lips meet his/hers then fireworks lift you up to heaven in an
unspoken, indescribable feeling. Then pain comes, because pain
is part of life, part of love. When you spread your wings above the clouds,
only for them to burn leading you to fall to your demise, leaving nothing but
broken bones. You got scared of trying again, afraid of falling in love or
being touched by anyone, but when you had the chance you let your guard down, and
accept life's passion with open arms.
Personally, I've been
blessed enough in my short-life-span to have witnessed a great deal of
those moments, thus, knowing how each of the situations I've mentioned
felt like. I fell in love, got hurt and wounded, got up from the fall, loved
again, then got hurt, and so on and on and probably will keep on doing this for
as long as I am alive. Although, sometimes, I'm not living life to the fullest
potential, but I always try to cheer myself up and those around me because maybe
one day it'll be my turn to reach the horizon.
Every single human being on this planet is
living life according to his/her own perspective. All of us are reasons as I love
to say. No one comes in your life by chance or mere coincidence, as we are all a reason for one another. Maybe you needed to learn how to open up to life, so
life decided to send you a reason, a lesson in the form of a person, and when
your reason was fulfilled it was time for you to move on and get hurt, so life
sent you another reason. The cycle goes on like this until the day you die.
Some reasons are meant to stay forever, and some are just temporary for mere
educational purposes. Some overstay their welcome and we must learn how to
adjust or grow the power to say you are not welcome anymore. It is an endless
cycle of reasons, causes and effects that we are all trapped within. This is
life.
As long as we breathe, love will find us. As long
as we love, pain will hurt us. As long as we're in pain, hope will cure us. And
as long as we are alive, we will have our moments of everything, until the day
we learn to be content.
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